The Friendship Part of the  Relationship (Part 1)

 How can you have a relationship without friendship? The truth of this matter is whether or not you are contemplating the rewards of a true relationship or just some passing whim to satisfy your hunger for satisfaction of self. Yes that's right I did say satisfaction of self and what I mean by that is non specific in a lot of areas but it is specific in the fact that if the relationship is not true to the nature of purity then it is washed up and benefits no one in the long run.

Purity now there is a word to describe what a true friendship is. Because here is where the most important facts are present.Would you do anything at all for for your significant other? Would you treat them the same way that you would have them treat you?

Because friendship is of this just nature. It is this part of the relationship that it's very foundation and strength are built upon. Friendship can be either Pure or Selfish. Righteous or Evil. From Submissiveness to Dominance it is measured. It's For real or it's not. It's ether fair and just or deceptive and corrupt.

I'll start with just one of the worst traits in this first of this series.

(The friendship part of the relationship)

This is the introduction and the first trait I'm going to reflect on is Dominance

Dominance

 To be dominant and to recognize it's worth and value and to recognize its evil counterpart. Domineering is what I will call it.
It's one thing to be Dominant and there are different degrees of  it but there is a degree that is at most unhealthy and it's to be domineering.
In a relationship between 2 people there has to be a sense of fairness. There are two sets of feelings and two sets of desires. Two sets of Ideas and so forth. You can get the drift of what I am saying. Both need to be considered.
To be dominant is to be the one that leads the relationship which in the case of a man and a woman it is the man who should be the leader.The woman is to follow. However if the man dominates to the point of overriding all the Ideas, rights, feelings,desires, feelings and respects of the other person then he has overstepped the boundaries of friendship and the relationship will not be one that is rewarding.

To domineer is to be controlling,mean and unfeeling.There can be no real friendship when is  domineering in the relationship.There can only be all take on one part and all taken from and I'll tell you in one of my articles of the importance of "Give and Take" The final note here is that it's okay to be dominate as long as the other person is Submissive. But not too submissive. I'll tell about The importance of Submissiveness and it's evil counterpart in my next article.More on this in future articles.

This is only a Introduction to the subject of Dominance in a series and this article is an Introduction to the entire series on Friendships and Relationships.

In the mean time why don't you take my quiz and find out what kind of friend you are? There is a place at the end where you can rate it.
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/the-test-of-friendship